WARNING: this is pure rambling about things, with no coherency to it. sorry if this doesn't make any sense.
Married life is great. Is it what I thought it would be? honestly, I'm not sure. I wans't sure what to expect in the fist place, so how can i know if it met those expectations. there are great parts, there are parts that take some adjusting, but for the most part, its been good. i enjoy it.
learning to accept that I have a husband who loves to do things, that can be hard sometimes. finding the balance between being independant, and wanting to do everything for him, and letting him do things for me, its been the hardest thing to adjust to. i love that he loves to cook, and wants to make dinner. i need to learn to accept that, and not feel horrible when he does it while i don't notice, doing homework. on the one hand, i'm glad he has the thought, and does it for me. on the other, i almost feel like i'm neglecting my duties as a wife. especially when he is in school, and i am to be supporting him in that endevor. on the other hand, i've found ways to help him out also. making sure to keep the dishes clean, and the house in somewhat orderly manner (which has been interesting, with fixing and building bikes, and other homework strewed across the living room). learning to find a balance, and let him share in the work... its what needs to happen, and something i need to let happen.
Married life is great. Is it what I thought it would be? honestly, I'm not sure. I wans't sure what to expect in the fist place, so how can i know if it met those expectations. there are great parts, there are parts that take some adjusting, but for the most part, its been good. i enjoy it.
learning to accept that I have a husband who loves to do things, that can be hard sometimes. finding the balance between being independant, and wanting to do everything for him, and letting him do things for me, its been the hardest thing to adjust to. i love that he loves to cook, and wants to make dinner. i need to learn to accept that, and not feel horrible when he does it while i don't notice, doing homework. on the one hand, i'm glad he has the thought, and does it for me. on the other, i almost feel like i'm neglecting my duties as a wife. especially when he is in school, and i am to be supporting him in that endevor. on the other hand, i've found ways to help him out also. making sure to keep the dishes clean, and the house in somewhat orderly manner (which has been interesting, with fixing and building bikes, and other homework strewed across the living room). learning to find a balance, and let him share in the work... its what needs to happen, and something i need to let happen.
